Relationship Question?

Of course you aren't wrong for being upset, your caring for him I don't know how he can't understand that your only looking out for him you aren't being controlling at all, all your doing is making sure that he is alright and it's not really a big ask to know where he is so that you aren't worried, maybe he is over-reacting lots! but you have yourself and your kids to look after, and i doubt very much that your kids are ruining everything he knew that you had kids when use got into that relationship he shouldn't be bringing that up against you at all.